We probably all
remember our first day in the firehouse. You probably also remember the
training program. Whether it was in-house training or a local academy, you no
doubt learned the basics. As they should, they likely stressed the importance
of how to safely enter a life-threatening atmosphere— fully encapsulated for
your safety, remembering to keep your mask on through overhaul and keeping your
hood up so that no skin is exposed.
While all of that
is very important, the one thing we have never taken time to teach about is the
importance of protecting your mental health. Whether you are in a busy urban
firehouse or, on a rural department, you will without question be faced with
some horrific situations. While some of us have a good structure of people that
can help us process some of the things we see, not all of us do. There is a
limited pool of people for first responders to talk to because most people just
do not have the life experience to relate to the things we see.
This is where
Illinois Fire Fighter Peer Support comes in. We are a group of trained
firefighters and emergency responders who answer the call to
their brothers and sisters in need, regardless of what that need is. ILFFPS
is here for all fire and EMS first responders throughout the state including
full-time, part-time, urban, and rural. We even help our neighboring states
when the need arises. We receive calls from our 8-5-5 number or through the website.
After pairing up two peers, the original request is deleted. ILFFPS never has
and never will keep personal information. Everything is anonymous.
When meeting with
a peer, our mantra is, “Listen / Relate / Validate.” We train our peers on
listening skills so that they can be a presence for the person that requests
help. Additionally, all our peers are current or retired first responders, they
have had similar experiences and can easily relate to your struggles. The last
piece is validation. Because of our shared experience, we can say that we have
been there. It’s ok to not be ok, today.
Most situations
are what we call a normal reaction to an abnormal situation. The latest studies
indicate that in order to decrease the likelihood of PTSD, the window for
reaching out after a traumatic event is ten days. Reaching out can include
talking to a trusted friend, a chaplain, or a peer. What is important is that
we make it safe to reach out, make it safe to say “something affected me.”
For more
information please check us out on Facebook or visit us on the web at
ilffps.org
Illinois Firefighter Peer Support Inaugural Symposium
March 21-22, 2019
Double Tree by Hilton
1909 Spring Road
Oak Brook, IL 60523
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